I just don't understand why some people can be so selfish. I knew a girl in my class, who looks good, and sweet on the outside but she's the most selfish person I've ever known. She is one of those popular, pretty and outgoing girl and well-liked by everyone. You know, like those high school girls we see in American movies...
Call it coincidence or (bad) luck, she sat with me today because her partner and mine skipped school. I had the chance to talk to her about a lot things. There were many rumors about her and guys in school, so I took this chance to ask her. Apparently, she changes bf every month and finds nothing wrong in 'using' guys. She let them approach her, and giving them false signal to use them. When she finds that they do not have any value, she'll ignore them. If they keep bugging her, she'll tell them she has a bf, which is true. Worst of all, she thinks she's not at fault because the guys are the one who 'misunderstand' her over-friendliness. She thinks it's perfectly alright to use guys. For example, she'll ask them to be her chauffeur, bodyguard etc, and when they do not play any role in her life, she'll cruelly 'discard' them.
I'm disturbed by this because she's not the only one who is like that. I USED to like a guy who is just like her, attitude wise. And guess what? He is her so called 'boyfriend angkat'....wth..have u even heard of such thing?I know there are 'kai brother/sister' but bf? sick..
I heard (from that selfish girl) that a girl used to like him, obsessively. Note: the girl is not ME!!
She calls him everyday, SMS him every now and then and worst part of all, he replies, he flirts with her openly. So, eventually, she thinks she has a chance. Then during their first date, he told her he has a gf. Imagined how she would feel. Perhaps I'm being naive but I really think he's wrong. And I heard he even two-timed his ex.
These people play with people's feeling, and hurt others, when in fact they are the most insecure people. Well, at least that's what I think. OR perhaps they have been hurt before by that particular kind of people. Anyhow, they will soon realized they are wrong because I believe in karma. What they do to others now, they will get it back.
karma.
Jan 27, 2006
Jan 14, 2006
Happy New Year!!!!
New year to me is always a new beginning, a time to start everything all over again and a time to forget the past and move on with life.
2005 was a memorable year but it wasn't the best. I got a taste of working, met many people, learnt many principles in life, learnt how to avoid nasty situations and see many faces of people.
Honestly, I felt that I've grown into a better person who knows how to deal with many kind of people. I've finally seen the bad side of my closest friends, after 5 years together.
Conclusion: everyone is selfish but for some people, it is to certain extend. It is also a year for me and my mom to understand each other better. I wasn't close with my mom throughout my high skool life, perhaps because too busy with each others' work or perhaps lack of communication. But somehow, last year, i finally had an enjoyable time with my mom, I can talk to her about school, about the stupid driver who stares at me, and about my friends. There were times when my mom would suddenly 'disappear' from the house from morning to night, and I would not know where she went, I wouldn't even bother asking her where she went. That was two years back.
Anyway, I started 2006 with laughter, literally. I had steamboat with a group of ex-classmates from secondary school. We really had fun! All the silly jokes, all the catching up, and so much more! I think it's a good sign like what we always says in canto ''hou yee tau''.
Hopefully, everything goes well this year!
So far, 2006 has been a hectic year. Homework to finish, assignments to be done, experiments to do...Etc etc...All I can say is, three words
busy busy busy!hehe...
2005 was a memorable year but it wasn't the best. I got a taste of working, met many people, learnt many principles in life, learnt how to avoid nasty situations and see many faces of people.
Honestly, I felt that I've grown into a better person who knows how to deal with many kind of people. I've finally seen the bad side of my closest friends, after 5 years together.
Conclusion: everyone is selfish but for some people, it is to certain extend. It is also a year for me and my mom to understand each other better. I wasn't close with my mom throughout my high skool life, perhaps because too busy with each others' work or perhaps lack of communication. But somehow, last year, i finally had an enjoyable time with my mom, I can talk to her about school, about the stupid driver who stares at me, and about my friends. There were times when my mom would suddenly 'disappear' from the house from morning to night, and I would not know where she went, I wouldn't even bother asking her where she went. That was two years back.
Anyway, I started 2006 with laughter, literally. I had steamboat with a group of ex-classmates from secondary school. We really had fun! All the silly jokes, all the catching up, and so much more! I think it's a good sign like what we always says in canto ''hou yee tau''.
Hopefully, everything goes well this year!
So far, 2006 has been a hectic year. Homework to finish, assignments to be done, experiments to do...Etc etc...All I can say is, three words
busy busy busy!hehe...
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Dec 23, 2005
I love rollercoaster
Genting was so much fun! Firstly, i haven't been there for ages, the last time i went there was 10 years ago.Then, going there was a last minute decision, i received a message from a friend (Why Kit) in the middle of the night, 10.30pm asking me to join them to Genting the next morning. I was only given 30minutes to make a decision, so i asked my mom and she said ''go la''. Haha...so I went
It was weird at first because I didn't know any of them, well I just knew their names,we hardly talk in school. So, it was a bit awkward at first but gradually, we clicked.
I didn't get enough sleep that night because I was excited (hey, I haven't been there for 10 years okay!). Then during the bus trip, I really wanted to vomit (side effect from not enough sleep) but thank god for the guys who chit chatted non stop during the whole journey (namely Keng Hoo and Win Hong). Dizziness replaced by laughter :)
There were 16 of us, with only 4 girls, all crammed into a two rooms apartment which was meant for 4 people. So, I can't imagine how the guys could crammed into a room. But they didn't sleep, they went out to...I dunno where, I was too worn out to give a shit on that.
We were eventually splitted into 2 groups because a huge group will make everything slower. It was really cold and foggy but a good change from the hot and humid KL.
Anyway, we played so many things, Corkscrew, Solero Shot, etc etc...Can't remember the names..
But the one I couldn't forget was the swinging thingy (pardon me, I can't remember, the names are all too funny). It was an enjoyable, and soothing swing. Fun for the sake of having the wind brush through your skin..Feels nice. But sadly, I sat with a bunch of monkeys from Klang High School. The guys were deliberately screaming in unison on purpose. I virtually had to cover my ears with my hands. Imagine all the uncles and aunties looking at us...Man, the guys can really scream especially Phor Xiang, they screamed from the start till the very end! Even better than the girls, I tell u...
We played until the theme park was closed, 10.30pm. Then we went Starbucks to mamak. The guys can really talk, no joke....they can talk for hours but it was fun chatting with them because they are a bunch of really crazy and funny people. Gossiping for them is a must! :P
I was only disappointed in the food. Expensive, tasteless, and service like shit. We went to a Chinese restaurant and ordered their 'specialty' and guess what? Maggie mee and we paid $12 for a bowl of Maggi.What nonsense...special my ass.
It was raining the next day when we were leaving for KL. The theme park was closed, I think. Thank god it was clear when we went there.
All in all, the trip was worth everything (well, minus the food lar). I enjoyed myself, and I finally got to meet many new high schoolians. I've always thought that they were a bunch of people who would always keep to themselves, refusing to talk to anyone but their own clan but I was wrong. They were friendly, out going, daring, funny and just plain fun to be with!
I love this holiday!
It was weird at first because I didn't know any of them, well I just knew their names,we hardly talk in school. So, it was a bit awkward at first but gradually, we clicked.
I didn't get enough sleep that night because I was excited (hey, I haven't been there for 10 years okay!). Then during the bus trip, I really wanted to vomit (side effect from not enough sleep) but thank god for the guys who chit chatted non stop during the whole journey (namely Keng Hoo and Win Hong). Dizziness replaced by laughter :)
There were 16 of us, with only 4 girls, all crammed into a two rooms apartment which was meant for 4 people. So, I can't imagine how the guys could crammed into a room. But they didn't sleep, they went out to...I dunno where, I was too worn out to give a shit on that.
We were eventually splitted into 2 groups because a huge group will make everything slower. It was really cold and foggy but a good change from the hot and humid KL.
Anyway, we played so many things, Corkscrew, Solero Shot, etc etc...Can't remember the names..
But the one I couldn't forget was the swinging thingy (pardon me, I can't remember, the names are all too funny). It was an enjoyable, and soothing swing. Fun for the sake of having the wind brush through your skin..Feels nice. But sadly, I sat with a bunch of monkeys from Klang High School. The guys were deliberately screaming in unison on purpose. I virtually had to cover my ears with my hands. Imagine all the uncles and aunties looking at us...Man, the guys can really scream especially Phor Xiang, they screamed from the start till the very end! Even better than the girls, I tell u...
We played until the theme park was closed, 10.30pm. Then we went Starbucks to mamak. The guys can really talk, no joke....they can talk for hours but it was fun chatting with them because they are a bunch of really crazy and funny people. Gossiping for them is a must! :P
I was only disappointed in the food. Expensive, tasteless, and service like shit. We went to a Chinese restaurant and ordered their 'specialty' and guess what? Maggie mee and we paid $12 for a bowl of Maggi.What nonsense...special my ass.
It was raining the next day when we were leaving for KL. The theme park was closed, I think. Thank god it was clear when we went there.
All in all, the trip was worth everything (well, minus the food lar). I enjoyed myself, and I finally got to meet many new high schoolians. I've always thought that they were a bunch of people who would always keep to themselves, refusing to talk to anyone but their own clan but I was wrong. They were friendly, out going, daring, funny and just plain fun to be with!
I love this holiday!
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Nov 24, 2005
Fun, fun, fun!
Cameron Highland wasn’t as bad as some people might say. I went there on the 22nd Oct, Tuesday with my classmates to catch insects for our biology assignment i.e. preserving insects using chloroform and formalin. We were excited during the first hour of ride there, busily chatting and singing to the radio (not to mention eating!!) but gradually, we fell asleep as most of us woke up early, around 3 am so that we could reach Cameron just in time for breakfast!
Indeed, we really got there around 9 am and it was drizzling. Well, truth be told, it was raining the WHOLE DAY!
Somehow, when we reach there, some of us got sore eyes while some felt dizzy. We felt that way right until afternoon. It wasn’t until one of my friend noticed her backpack was wet that we realized we had been intoxicated by chloroform.
What a way to start our ‘quest’ of finding those damn insects!
Anyway, we had so much fun that we looked like vacationing rather than doing assignment. Well, to start things off, we ‘stole’ strawberries on the way to our apartment. Cameron has many strawberry farms offering tourists to self-pluck strawberries and one of those many farms were really, really unlucky that day! We were supposed to pluck strawberries and fill them into a container which they provide at a cost of Rm15. But being an adventurous and hungry-for-strawberries group of teenagers, we couldn’t resist not eating them!! We had this ‘tactic’ to distract the workers from catching us eating strawberries where one of us would pretend to ask him many questions while the rest would eat them mercilessly! Honestly, each of us ate 30-40 strawberries and there were 7 of us! And all we paid was Rm15 in total! Wahaha…worth every cents!
We did not catch many insects on the first day as it was raining. Time was running out, we only booked the apartment for a night. We then planned to buy them from the butterfly farm. Shockingly, one butterfly costs Rm80-100 ++ and we need 5 of them. Out of desperation to bring back butterflies, each of us paid Rm3 and went into the farm to steal them!! Yeap, we stole 10++ butterflies! Haha..don’t ask me how but we just did it!
The apartment that we stayed in was really cozy and most importantly, cheap. 3 rooms and 2 bathrooms equip with Astro, Kitchen utensils and all the necessary stuff for Rm220.
Not bad eh? I might go there again next year! Hahaha
Indeed, we really got there around 9 am and it was drizzling. Well, truth be told, it was raining the WHOLE DAY!
Somehow, when we reach there, some of us got sore eyes while some felt dizzy. We felt that way right until afternoon. It wasn’t until one of my friend noticed her backpack was wet that we realized we had been intoxicated by chloroform.
What a way to start our ‘quest’ of finding those damn insects!
Anyway, we had so much fun that we looked like vacationing rather than doing assignment. Well, to start things off, we ‘stole’ strawberries on the way to our apartment. Cameron has many strawberry farms offering tourists to self-pluck strawberries and one of those many farms were really, really unlucky that day! We were supposed to pluck strawberries and fill them into a container which they provide at a cost of Rm15. But being an adventurous and hungry-for-strawberries group of teenagers, we couldn’t resist not eating them!! We had this ‘tactic’ to distract the workers from catching us eating strawberries where one of us would pretend to ask him many questions while the rest would eat them mercilessly! Honestly, each of us ate 30-40 strawberries and there were 7 of us! And all we paid was Rm15 in total! Wahaha…worth every cents!
We did not catch many insects on the first day as it was raining. Time was running out, we only booked the apartment for a night. We then planned to buy them from the butterfly farm. Shockingly, one butterfly costs Rm80-100 ++ and we need 5 of them. Out of desperation to bring back butterflies, each of us paid Rm3 and went into the farm to steal them!! Yeap, we stole 10++ butterflies! Haha..don’t ask me how but we just did it!
The apartment that we stayed in was really cozy and most importantly, cheap. 3 rooms and 2 bathrooms equip with Astro, Kitchen utensils and all the necessary stuff for Rm220.
Not bad eh? I might go there again next year! Hahaha
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